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Aug 22 2012

Blogust: The Father of All Blog Relays

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Filth, slurs, expletives, graphic mixed metaphors and similes oozing with slime. I’ve had them all hurled at me in comments over the last seven years. And some of them were even spelled correctly.

People that visit the Lab know that while we love to blog and to hang out in our forums, our primary work is video — over 800 episodes to date. As a result, our main source of comments is YouTube. There we get cursed at from time to time. An experience that can lead not only to despair about the civility of today’s youth, but also optimism regarding their creativity.

So while I appreciate your viewership, MerkinTime666, I’m left feeling a bit bemused when you characterize me as “retarted.” I don’t even remember being tarted the first time. And when you, goatmilk44, opine after viewing our experiments with a pregnancy simulation suit that, “I have fallen into a den of fags” (a personal fave), I wish you luck entertaining your diverse house guests.

The biggest problem with the YT trolls is not their grammar, however. It’s the fact that I sometimes allow them to take up way more mind space that they deserve. The vast majority of comments we receive on YouTube are kind, thoughtful, encouraging and even inspiring.

Most of the time it’s moms. Which is great. Sincere thanks, moms.

Less often, it’s a dad. And sometimes, it’s a dad that isn’t even part of the “dad blogging community.” Those are the gems.

Every time one of those dads leaves a comment, I’m proud because to a greater or lesser extent, when that guy enters into a public conversation about parenting, he is challenging accepted stereotypes. Am I hyperventilating when I assert that a comment on a YouTube video is a form of courage? I don’t think so.

That’s why I think that it’s crucial that we support dads every time they face down the trolls (external and internal) to join the online parenting conversation. Moms, goad your partners. Challenge them. Taunt them. Withhold sex. Okay, maybe not that. But nag them through forwarded posts and Facebook blog bombs and reward them richly when they follow through.

This re-enforcement is justified because every blog and video comment a dad makes is like an immunization (transition alert!). Every public comment becomes, in part, a tiny public pledge to be an engaged and active dad. Every word, even if it’s just to joke, hassle or kid the author — we’re like that — is another fortifying dose of immunity against detachment and the debilitating male gender roles of the past.

And speaking of immunizations (see how I did that?), why not start here and double down on goodness. By commenting here, dad not only gets a booster on the way to a healthy career as paterfamilias, but also automatically generates a $20 donation for Shot@Life, an initiative saving the lives of children in developing countries.

All he has to do is comment and the donation, enough to cover the cost of four essential vaccines, will be made by the United Nations Foundation and their sponsor partners. That’s because this post is a part of Blogust, a month-long Blog Relay for Good. I’ve taken the baton from Gina Carroll and will pass it on to Randi Zuckerberg. Your comments on those posts raise money as well, so I highly recommend you visit.

Shoot, why not give yourself a full blown NGOrgasm by commenting on every single post and raise over $600 in the process. Great posts have been cropping up daily and there are more to come.

By the way: MOM COMMENTS ARE WELCOME, TOO. Because we need a bunch, and like I said, brave and pioneering Dads are still a bit scarce.

And when you’re done with all that, kick back and watch a video or two. There is even some independent evaluation that our videos aren’t that bad.

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Clay Nichols

Father of 3, Co-Founder of DadLabs, Author, Marathoner, wine sipper.

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  1. Chrysula
    August 22, 2012

    This is awesome! Thanks for pulling it all together and making every comment count! Why send you an email when I can make a comment for $20 more to vaccinate a kid, right?!

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Thanks you!

      Reply
  2. Genevieve Ford
    August 22, 2012

    What else is there to say? Immunize.

    Reply
  3. Karen
    August 22, 2012

    Momcomment here, supporting brave and pioneering Dads. Great post! :)

    K.

    Reply
  4. Liz
    August 22, 2012

    My husband recently read 50 Shades of Grey at the urging of his female co-workers (I have not read it) and I am >this close< to getting my husband to agree to write a guest post on my blog. Oh, the comments on "that" post would be epic, I think. Thanks for sharing this post and for giving me yet another chance to help make comments matter, Clay :)

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Let me know when that post goes up. My comment will be the first in the cue.

      Reply
    • Naomi
      August 22, 2012

      I would read THAT for sure!

      Reply
  5. Cindy L
    August 22, 2012

    Thank you for your post today! You’ve earned your run and your glass of wine today :)

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      I’ve had my run, so I guess it’s time to pull a cork!

      Reply
  6. lori harding
    August 22, 2012

    I couldn’t agree more, we need more dad’s in the conversation and in the motion to raise awareness and support of children across the globe! Keep up the great movement!!

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Thanks, Lori.

      Reply
  7. Amy Graff
    August 22, 2012

    This is a great cause! Thanks for supporting it and making a difference!

    Reply
  8. Carissa
    August 22, 2012

    Hey Clay,
    Sooooo glad to see a Dad in the Blugust Family!
    We all can use a shotinthearm of uplifting ‘real’ comments eh?
    And when my comment = a Shot@life then.. YAY for both of us!

    Glad you stick with it despite the trolls. :)

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      So glad to be here! Yay for both of us. Word.

      Reply
  9. C.C. Chapman
    August 22, 2012

    Hysterical post my friend. Written as only YOU could.

    Glad we were both asked to be part of this.

    Reply
    • Chrysula
      August 22, 2012

      The Dads rock it – couldn’t do it without y’all, despite what some may say ;) .

      Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Hope you got a smile, ’cause I know you’ve been there. Glad to rep dads with you, my friend.

      Reply
  10. jai
    August 22, 2012

    I’m not a mom or a dad, but I appreciate your work and am here to show that appreciation with good spelling. Also to say thanks for supporting Shot@Life!

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  11. Jeannette
    August 22, 2012

    Yes, we need to support dads in the parenting space! So happy to be part of Blogust with you.

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    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Thanks so much for stopping by and for participating in Blogust.

      Reply
  12. Susan
    August 22, 2012

    Thanks for supporting this cause. I am off to watch some of your videos and snore at the trolls!

    Reply
  13. Queen Scarlett
    August 22, 2012

    I dig this. Rock on. Cheers!

    Reply
  14. Jeannine
    August 22, 2012

    Great post Clay!!!

    Reply
  15. Margaret Busse
    August 22, 2012

    Love the blogging dad!

    Reply
  16. Emily Kate
    August 22, 2012

    This s fantastic.

    Reply
  17. carmel mac
    August 22, 2012

    Thank you Clay for participating and helping children receive necessary their vaccines. Especially appreciate your comments concerning the importance of proper grammar and keeping our communication intelligible.

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Too many years as an English teacher, I guess.

      Reply
  18. Ryan
    August 22, 2012

    Not a Dad and not intending to give it a shot either. But willing to give others a shot at life!

    Reply
  19. Jeanette
    August 22, 2012

    Mom commenting – great to see a Dadblog! Thanks for supporting such a great cause.

    Reply
  20. IlinaP
    August 22, 2012

    Everyone remembers his first time being tarted. I have more trolls than commenters. I say karma’s going to be rough.

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Well, maybe I do remember being tarted. Now I’m an outed tart!

      Reply
  21. LaShaun Martin
    August 22, 2012

    I just love this! Sometimes ignorant comments are appreciated to keep the conversation interesting. Great post!

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  22. Tanis the Redneck Mommy
    August 22, 2012

    I’m so glad you were asked to be a part of this campaign. Yay!

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Me, too. Gratitude!

      Reply
  23. Jess_C
    August 22, 2012

    Entertaining read, commenting for a good cause. Thanks!

    Reply
  24. Kara
    August 22, 2012

    Thanks for participating in Blogust. This is a great cause. Go dads!

    Reply
  25. amanda
    August 22, 2012

    Awesome. Thanks for doing this. :)

    Reply
  26. Lacretia Hardy
    August 22, 2012

    You are hilarious! I have recently had an increase in troll appearances on my own content and, I admit, I take it personal. Thanks for teaching me how to laugh it off. You rock, dude!

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    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Lacretia, thanks so much for the comment. Keep trolls under bridges where they belong!

      Reply
  27. Stephen
    August 22, 2012

    Funny stuff. In the spirit of playing devil’s advocate I’d argue that sometimes in challenging stereotypes we can give them more power over us than they should have. It is better to just ignore them completely.

    I kicked back and watched the teen shaving video. It was good. But I think new shavers just like to try the old fashioned way. After going to all that trouble wears off I think a shaver with circular blades is the way to go.

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      I hear you. Mostly we don’t have time to think about what went on in the past, we just do what we have to. Thanks for checking out the video.

      Reply
  28. Dee
    August 22, 2012

    Give all kids a fair shot!

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  29. Damita Wray
    August 22, 2012

    Thanks for the reminder to put the posts in perspective. I envy your “immunity” to it. The thing I find most troubling is having my 8 yr old son innocently searching some useful video and me having to quickly scroll through the comments to make sure they are kid-friendly.

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      YouTube is an open manhole cover when it comes to kids.

      Reply
  30. Daphne (aka Mushy Mamma)
    August 22, 2012

    Love your post, thank you for committing to family and giving back to community. I will share this post with my husband as well as the rest of my network

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  31. Mom101
    August 22, 2012

    Thanks for the laugh Clay! Count one more mom in the growing pool of not-douchey comments.

    Liz

    AKA Merkintime666 (I figured it was time to come clean. And sory abot my speling.)

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      I suspected as much!

      Reply
  32. wendy @ mama one to three
    August 22, 2012

    this is great. so very happy to offer my “two cents” & more toward saving children!

    Reply
  33. John
    August 22, 2012

    Went ahead and created an account at DadLabs, still couldn’t comment. Oops. :)

    Don’t have a kid, will never have a kid. But I liked the DadLabs Guide to Fatherhood. Most of the videos I’ve seen aren’t really that relevant to my life, but they’re fun sometimes, anyway.

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Sorry about the probs over at DL. I think we *finally* have it all squared away. Thanks for finding you way here and for reading the book. I really appreciate it.

      Reply
  34. Julie Marsh
    August 22, 2012

    NGOrgasm very nearly killed me. But I suppose that’s the way to go, huh?

    Thank you for doing this campaign, for doing your videos, for bringing more menfolk into the online parenting fold. It’s a team effort, and you’re one of the greatest leaders we’ve got.

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    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Oh, oh, oh, I’m so glad you liked that one. Cheers.

      Reply
  35. Mrs. Ben
    August 22, 2012

    I am only doing this because Nik is selling it on Facebook. Don’t know whether Ben has even noticed.

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    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Where is that Ben guy? Too busy building the pizza empire!

      Reply
      • Mrs. Ben
        August 22, 2012

        He has pizza on the brain. We are very non-PC and call it “pizza tourettes”.

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        • Mr Ben
          August 22, 2012

          Hey. What’s wrong with Pizza Tourettes? I’m sure that some day the UN will be able to immunize for that. (See what I did there?)

          Clay, I’m sorry the Mayor has been checked out for a while. It would help if DL was mobile-friendly.

          Reply
  36. Myrdin Thompson
    August 22, 2012

    Comments count in so many ways! The odd ones, the curve balls, the “what has this got to do with anything I just wrote” ones, they all matter-some in bigger ways than they ought to, for certain. But today, our comments count in the most significant way imaginable: by helping to provide a child with a much needed immunization so they can have a shot at LIFE! Sweet! Great post too btw. I now need to go get “re-tarted” to make the most of my Wednesday!

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    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Agreed!

      Reply
  37. C
    August 22, 2012

    My husband may never be part of the digital conversation, but I will. Comments count. Doubly so in this case. Keep up the good work.

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  38. Mir
    August 22, 2012

    I am afraid of YouTube commenters. You get the label of “brave” just for facing them, in my book. ;)

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  39. Matt Schneider
    August 22, 2012

    I hear you on the nasty comments taking more mindshare than they deserve . . . you are doing great work here and I wish you the best of luck!

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  40. Rob O.
    August 22, 2012

    Keep up the great work, Clay! I’m a longtime viewer of DadLabs and I appreciate that you guys challenge stereotypes. As a latecomer to the game (being a nearly 50 yr old first-time Dad), I often challenge – sometimes forcibly – stereotypes and accepted conventions too. Don’t even get me started on technology in the classroom…

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    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Rob, I am really grateful to you for the longtime support you’ve shown DL. Sincerely, brother. Thanks.

      Reply
  41. Erin Lane
    August 22, 2012

    Yay Clay! Great cause. And fabulous post. Damn trolls.

    Reply
  42. Rob Monroe
    August 22, 2012

    Daddy Clay! Oh how I miss being a part of the “dad blog community” over the last two years – I’m so glad that you are a part of this effort! I am eternally grateful to the community that you launched over at DadLabs and how much I learned in the first few years of my daughters life. You, my friend, are a pioneer and we should all hope to be like you! (Not just blowing smoke, I mean that!)

    Keep up the great work!

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    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      You are the best, Rob Monroe. Thanks so much for the support. And congrats on all that has happened for you in the last couple years. Keep it up!

      Reply
  43. Chris Routly (Daddy Doctrines)
    August 22, 2012

    Love this, Clay!

    Thanks for being such a huge part of engaging dads in the conversation about parenting. You’re right, it’s extremely important.

    Reply
  44. WSW
    August 22, 2012

    My wife runs a puppet regime on my twitter account. But I can manage to read a blog and comment for something this important. Kudos to you for being part of it.

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  45. Nick
    August 22, 2012

    This is fantastic — thanks for doing it. And for the vaccinations segue — pretty smooth.

    Reply
  46. andre
    August 22, 2012

    is this on? commenty comment comment?

    tryin’ to help out w/ the Shot@life benefit dealie. (also a dad.)

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    • Concretin Nik
      August 22, 2012

      Thanks Andre! Sorry for the troubles Holmes.

      Reply
  47. Bobjr79
    August 22, 2012

    Thanks to you and the rest of the DL crew for doing what you do. Great cause!

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    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Thanks for hanging with us Bobjr.

      Reply
  48. Catherine
    August 22, 2012

    If women withold sex from the menfolk, wouldn’t that lessen the menfolk’s need to be part of a parenting blog? Oh well, here’s a shot for life!

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  49. C.C
    August 22, 2012

    Keep you chin up dad and keep up the great work! You’re doing a good thing :)

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  50. Concretin Nik
    August 22, 2012

    Again, great post Clay! And excellent solution to the commenting issue. Well done, Sir. Well done indeed.

    Reply
  51. Mykal Pedraza
    August 22, 2012

    Many THANKS DadLabs for the positive difference you make in so many lives! Keep up the GREAT work!

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    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Thanks, Mykal — and congrats again on your recent accomplishment!

      Reply
  52. Jen from Mom It Forward
    August 22, 2012

    Thank you for your post today! What an amazing campaign!

    Reply
  53. Audrey
    August 22, 2012

    Loving all the Dad comments! Great post.

    Reply
  54. Knight
    August 22, 2012

    Great job getting much needed vaccines.

    Reply
  55. DaDa Rocks
    August 22, 2012

    Congrats on the new site!

    Reply
  56. Holly Pavlika
    August 22, 2012

    I am always thrilled to see involved Dads particularly in healthcare. And positive comments for a good cause!

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  57. Nicole
    August 22, 2012

    Great message and thanks for supporting global vaccines! I haven’t had any name calling yet but will remember to take it all in stride when I do! :) Nicole

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  58. Kathleen
    August 22, 2012

    I’m impressed with the cause, but mostly I’ll just be laughing at “I don’t remember being tarted the first time”. Thanks!

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  59. Angus Nelson
    August 22, 2012

    Great post, great cause! Love those mouthy, anonymous Youtube commenters… bumpkins all of them. :)

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      And you know what we do with bumpkins, don’t you? No, seriously, what do we do with bumpkins?

      Reply
  60. Crystal
    August 22, 2012

    Great post. Great cause!

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  61. Sheila Davidson
    August 22, 2012

    Way to go Clay. Glad to help.

    Reply
  62. Tricia Clarke
    August 22, 2012

    I never really thought about how important it is to get my husband engaged in forums like this until you pointed it out. I know lots of dads who quietly go about the business of holding down their families, working hard to provide and being awesome role models to their kids…and being part of the parenting discussion will help others know about them too!
    Great post and even greater cause!

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    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Couldn’t agree more, Tricia.

      Reply
  63. Sarah
    August 22, 2012

    Posting on behalf of my husband–a world class Dad. He’s too busy with the kids and the grandchild to devote his time to social media.

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  64. Sarah
    August 22, 2012

    I am only a mom…but one who married the kind of man you talk about. Thanks for supporting such a great cause!

    Reply
  65. Beth
    August 22, 2012

    Thank you for your post! Good Job!

    Reply
  66. Brandy Robertson
    August 22, 2012

    Great post! Hurrah to equality of the sexes! Stay loud and stay proud, Clay.

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  67. Roxanna (miguelina)
    August 22, 2012

    You are funny. So happy to be in this together!

    Reply
  68. Allison G
    August 22, 2012

    Thanks for being part of the Blog Relay for Good! Working for a world where no child dies from preventable causes!

    Reply
  69. Kristine
    August 22, 2012

    Great cause. Thanks!

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  70. Beta Dad
    August 22, 2012

    I’VE FALLEN INTO A DEN OF WAGS!

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  71. Yolanda Gordon
    August 22, 2012

    I love this post! Glad to see a dad posting.

    Reply
  72. Sherri
    August 22, 2012

    Thanks for blogging for vaccines. Like your warnings on transitioning!

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  73. Doug French
    August 22, 2012

    I look forward to many future tartings.

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  74. Beth
    August 22, 2012

    Thanks Clay. Part of the fun of blogust has been reading the blogs of so many folks. It has been addictive. Great to have a Dad’s voice today. Thanks for your words and videos! Go Shot@life!!

    Reply
  75. AmyLu
    August 22, 2012

    Just arrived on this blog and I like your style! Thanks for being a part of the amazing blogging world helping immunize kids around the world. I love what Shot@Life is doing!

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  76. Danny
    August 22, 2012

    Brilliant. This is great, especially since DadLabs rock. And I don’t get paid to say that. I used to, but not much anymore.

    Reply
  77. Jean
    August 22, 2012

    What a better world we would have if there were more dads like you..

    Reply
  78. Christen
    August 22, 2012

    HAHA!!! Love your dad perspective…we definitely need more of you guys in the blog world! Thanks for giving blogging a shot (see how I did that???)!!! :)

    Reply
  79. Jason
    August 22, 2012

    I’m 100!!! I’m a 100!!!

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  80. Nancy
    August 22, 2012

    Another mom blogger here – thanks for the great post and the good work blogust is doing.

    Reply
  81. crystal
    August 22, 2012

    No snide comments here. Thanks so much for what you are doing for Shot@Life. It is amazing what a few clicks can do!

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  82. Robin
    August 22, 2012

    Hi Clay, I just ran across this initiative and wanted to show my support, but is there any information on specifically who’s making these donations and why they care if someone leaves a comment? I don’t really understand it, and it’d be nice to have some transparency – it isn’t made obvious to me on the Shot@Life site. I’m honestly not trying to be a downer, I just wish they’d explain this clearly before I get all warm and fuzzy over something that requires no effort on my part. It seems too good to be true.

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    • Chrysula
      August 22, 2012

      Hey, I can help answer this as I am one of the people who was part of putting this all together. Clay, hope that’s OK. The donors have requested privacy, but Shot@Life is an initiative of the United Nations Foundation http://www.unfoundation.org which aims to connect ordinary citizens with the work of the United Nations. The Shot@Life campaign specifically, is aiming to raise awareness, advocacy and funds for vaccines to be delivered to the 20% of the world’s children who still lack access to these life-saving tools. One of the things I’ve learned through this experience is that the power of awareness is just as important as funding. So as we all spread the word and get engaged by commenting and sharing with our networks, that awareness generation is matched with dollars to do the needed work on the ground. It’s a perfect marriage. And 100% of these funds absolutely go to pay for vaccines.

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      • Robin
        August 22, 2012

        Hi Chrysula, thanks for the reply, and the awareness piece you mentioned makes sense, it wasn’t really clear to me at first. I guess if the donors are prepared to make the max donation then the awareness becomes a positive side effect, and can lead to more support in the future. I’ll be sharing this, and unleashing my inner troll on the rest of the blog posts, it seems like such a small amount of effort for $20 raised. Thanks for your work with this.

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      • Clay Nichols
        August 22, 2012

        Thanks for clarifying, Chrysula. 100% pass through is so awesome.

        Reply
  83. Karen
    August 22, 2012

    Dad commenters rock! Thanks for allowing me to help Shot@Life through this comment1

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  84. Erin
    August 22, 2012

    I love this project!

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  85. Diana
    August 22, 2012

    This is a fantastic initiative, raising awareness, raising funds and making it easy for us mouse-potatoes to get involved and help out.

    It should also encourage us to think – and discuss – the necessary education campaigns that should accompany such immunisation drives. There is still a lot of ignorance to be overcome, even in developed countries such as the USA, and unfortunately, we are now also dealing with the backlash of the covert operations in Pakistan that took place under the guise of vaccination campaigns.

    Lots of work to do, but, as the famous proverb says, “a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step”

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  86. Sarah
    August 22, 2012

    Well said, Clay, and good job at not letting the negative comments get you down. Conversations are crucial in the quest to be better parents, so I thank you for continuing such important ones!

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  87. Dan
    August 22, 2012

    Comment!!!

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  88. GCarroll
    August 22, 2012

    Yes…well…these are nice digs, too! Love how responsive and ON IT everybody involved with this awesome Blogust Relay is! Carry-on! :-)

    Reply
  89. Craig
    August 22, 2012

    You need to have tough skin. I’ve had some experiences with Amazon that are so nasty and hurtful. I think they are the worst because it’s not as if someone was reading my work there and made an offhanded comment. They sought me out to insult me. I just don’t get it.

    Reply
  90. chlsbshp
    August 22, 2012

    Hey Clay, great post, here’s another comment :)

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  91. Rod
    August 22, 2012

    What an amazing thing this is… so simple!

    Reply
  92. Chad
    August 22, 2012

    This is a great message – both about dads being more involved and immunization.

    Reply
  93. julie
    August 22, 2012

    How could anyone NOT comment? Immunise all the children!

    Reply
  94. T'Ann Love
    August 22, 2012

    Well said! I am happy to comment and try to help where I can.

    Thanks!

    Reply
  95. ReneeK
    August 22, 2012

    Okay, admittedly, I am not a “Dad.” But I will ask the “Dad” (why am I quoting?) to comment also. After all, everyone deserves “a shot at life.” There I go again with the quotes.

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  96. William
    August 22, 2012

    It’s awesome to know and see the many faces that have contributed to blogust relay. I’ve been commenting just about everyday. The more comments the better ! Keep the comments coming :)

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  97. Amanda
    August 22, 2012

    This is great, Clay. I vow to encourage my dad and other dads I know to comment. We need more dad pioneers like you! Thanks!

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  98. Anna
    August 22, 2012

    Thanks for the entertaining read and participating!

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  99. Kim Orlandini
    August 22, 2012

    Love this. I will encourage all the dad’s I know. So amazing.

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  100. Robin
    August 22, 2012

    Seeing as how this is so easy to do, and according to the site, I can leave multiple comments for multiple $20 donations – I’m gonna leave another comment. I may do some other good things today, but this is probably the most efficient of them.

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  101. Robin
    August 22, 2012

    In fact, if it takes me roughly 30 seconds to leave a comment, I could spare an hour of my day and single-handedly raise $2,400!!! Hopefully I can spare an hour this evening or tomorrow!

    Reply
  102. Alex
    August 22, 2012

    Awesome and inspired.

    Reply
  103. Al
    August 22, 2012

    Im a Mocha Mom and we support Shot@life and this blogust campaign! And this post was an awesome call to action dads. My husband is an awesome father to our son. I believe that it’s a direct result of the amazing dad that he has. Hurray to fatherhood.

    Reply
  104. Amber
    August 22, 2012

    Awesome! Thanks

    Reply
  105. Jim
    August 22, 2012

    I think commenting for immunizations is great. It is good to see more good coming out of the UN.

    Reply
  106. Kathie
    August 22, 2012

    Love your post … sharing so my dad friends get a laugh and then hope they will comment! :)

    Reply
  107. Lyssa
    August 22, 2012

    Thanks for sharing and supporting Shot@Life!

    Reply
  108. Casie
    August 22, 2012

    This is a fabulous machine you’ve got working here. Keep up the good work.

    Reply
  109. Naomi
    August 22, 2012

    I have some stay-at-home dad friends who will agree with you. I’m sure they’d like some more role models, etc.

    Reply
  110. Nancy Lyn Cotter
    August 22, 2012

    Thank you so much for your insight, perseverance and for participating in this life-affirming program for our world’s children. Anyone would be proud to have you as a dad, and any woman happy to have you as husband & father of her children. Wish we could have billions more like you – committed, engaged, unafraid to speak the truth no matter who says what to whom :-) Thank you!

    Reply
  111. Laura
    August 22, 2012

    yay Clay! I’ll be over soon for that glass of wine…oh wait…darn.

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      We wish!

      Reply
  112. Erika Lehmann
    August 22, 2012

    Thanks for contributing to and supporting this important undertaking. Now if we could just find a way to quiet the trolls, blogging might be a safer activity for those fainter of heart than you.

    Reply
  113. Emily McKhann
    August 22, 2012

    Hi Clay, I loved reading your post and your great big voice in the Dad-Blogosphere!

    Thanks for being a part of Shot@Life and Blogust!!!!

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      Emily, I just feel really lucky for the opportunity. Man, what a morning.

      Reply
  114. Jason
    August 22, 2012

    I wonder if “MerkinTIme666″ knows what a merkin is. I suspect not.

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 22, 2012

      He does, but decided to go with plugs instead.

      Reply
  115. Farzana
    August 22, 2012

    Great post. Kudos to Shot@Life for introducing us to so many diverse bloggers. Not only do immunizations increase, but so does the (hopefully constructive and positive) conversation.

    Reply
  116. Elizabeth Johnston
    August 22, 2012

    Unfortunately, trolls don’t seem to be limited to YT. I will be better able to laugh it off next time! Congratulations on a good post for a great cause.

    Reply
  117. Lorette Lavine
    August 22, 2012

    Great post…increasing immunizations is such a valuable cause and life saving. I am so grateful that I was e-mailed about tShot@Life. I would welcome comment on my blog…

    Reply
  118. Lyn
    August 23, 2012

    oh goodness! I stopped by for the blogust and nearly peed my pants laughing. Thoroughly entertaining. Thanks for joining the relay!

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 23, 2012

      Glad to be your digital diuretic and immunization do-good depot.

      Reply
  119. MelanieAlison
    August 23, 2012

    Funny post and a fantastic cause. Thanks for today’s cyber smile.

    Reply
  120. CindyyB
    August 23, 2012

    Thanks for your post. I agree that Dads need to be more involved with both parenting and online activities. Many would be surprised at what their kids and the peers of their kids are saying/seeing online! Appreciate the knowledge that you forge ahead despite the nasties that are out there.

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 23, 2012

      Cheers to informed parents!

      Reply
  121. luxury gift
    August 23, 2012

    There is hope and a kind of beauty in there somewhere, if you look for it. luxury gift

    Reply
  122. Anne Blake
    August 23, 2012

    Great you are part of Shot@Life blog relay. I find my YouTube commenters most frustrating when they ask a question and I feel compelled to do a Google search to answer it for them. Why don’t they cut out the middle man and Google themselves? Now controlling my compulsion to spoon feed :)

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 23, 2012

      I know. How do they manage to search YT, but can’t navigate Google?

      Reply
  123. Chris
    August 23, 2012

    Is this where I comment? Hopefully this adds another $20.

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 23, 2012

      Yep. You did it!

      Reply
  124. Claire
    August 23, 2012

    Great post and a great cause!

    Reply
  125. Caroline Shipley
    August 23, 2012

    Here’s a nice comment, so you someone can get an essential vaccine!
    :)

    Reply
  126. Elaine
    August 23, 2012

    Great post! Love those smooth transitions! Go get’m, Papa Bear!

    Reply
  127. Barbara Platt
    August 23, 2012

    Thanks for the great work

    Reply
  128. julie
    August 23, 2012

    way to go, daddy-o!
    great post, even better cause =)

    Reply
  129. RawboneinLA
    August 23, 2012

    Dads are awesome, too. Thanks for the reminding us that they can and do do their part in the parenting world.

    Reply
  130. mochamom
    August 23, 2012

    What an innovative idea for a great cause! Thanks for being an engaged dad… in the blogosphere, but more importantly, at home.

    Reply
  131. MPH
    August 23, 2012

    Great post! Here’s another $20 towards vaccines! What a great cause!

    Reply
  132. adrienne
    August 23, 2012

    It has been a joy to watch Dad Labs change and grow over the last few years.

    I’m so pleased that you have chosen to be a part of this Shot@Life endeavor.

    Reply
  133. sue
    August 23, 2012

    Thanks for the great post!

    Reply
  134. Brad D
    August 23, 2012

    Glad to add to this great cause! Keep up the good work.

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 23, 2012

      Thanks, Brad.

      Reply
  135. Jeff
    August 23, 2012

    God bless us all.

    Reply
  136. KHR
    August 23, 2012

    Okay, the ‘den of fags’ thing must be new, because I’m hearing it all over the web now. For some reason I’m picturing Buffalo Bill’s hole with the Queer Eye guys at the bottom armed with a bunch of makeover products. I think I need to get my imagination in check.
    With that, thanks for doing what you’re doing for immunizations.

    Reply
  137. Ana Flores
    August 23, 2012

    I hyperventilated a bit at the thought of my husband entering *my* world…mine, all mine! :)
    There’s no risk in it. He won’t even tag me or comment on my FB posts. In fact, the one and only comment he’s ever left on my blog was on my Blogust post. Immunized!

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 23, 2012

      I get it, and feel like that, too. My wife is the non-SM person in our fam. Probably a little like how my teen feels about me being his FB friend.

      Reply
  138. Stephanie
    August 23, 2012

    Give life and immunize.

    Reply
  139. Felisa Hilbert
    August 23, 2012

    Thank you for a wonderful post and for being part of this great cause. Every 20 seconds children die of very easy preventable diseases that can be prevented with a vaccine.

    Reply
  140. Kelly
    August 23, 2012

    I’m always happy to see a good dad blog, wish there were more! It’s nice to read a dad’s perspective. This is such a smart and easy way to raise $$ for a great cause.
    ~Kelly

    Reply
  141. Mel
    August 23, 2012

    Great shout out for all of the quality dads in our lives. I’m glad to take [a small] part in such a wonderful cause. Thanks for an inspiring read.

    Reply
  142. Stephanie
    August 23, 2012

    How wierd that Dads have an opinion on parenting whodathought!!! You are a wonderful addition to this cause.

    Carry on!!

    Reply
  143. Kelly
    August 23, 2012

    Commenting for the kids! Thx for your contribution to the cause.

    Reply
  144. Noel Broomhall
    August 23, 2012

    On my occasional visits to Youtube, I’ve seen a few comments that are uncalled for, nasty, or just useless – thank goodness for the positives – a much better focus! Thank you Clay!

    Reply
  145. Teressa Morris
    August 23, 2012

    OMG “I don’t even remember being tarted the first time.” I nearly wet myself I was laughing so hard!! Thank you for the post!!!

    Reply
  146. tutu
    August 23, 2012

    When we had our kids Dads were only allowed to go to work and come home to kiss the kids good night and maybe read a short story. (he was allowed to teach the girls to fish!). I love the changes that have taken place and sites such as Dadlabs have led the way.. Good work

    Reply
  147. Pedro
    August 23, 2012

    Pretty sweet. I specially liked how you moved from the rants on YT to the immunization and shots@life you’ll be providing with this post!
    You’ve earned your glass of wine (so sorry it won’t be the one I sent you as the bottle was returned to me today… broken)

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 23, 2012

      I’m glad to hear that you liked the post, but devastated about the wine. Did you send it to me? You probably sent it to DadLabs. I knew I should have updated that address. My bad. And now good wine has suffered for it. Alas.

      Reply
  148. Katherine Stone
    August 23, 2012

    Dads kick ass. I’m so glad all you dad bloggers are out here representin’.

    Reply
  149. Anna
    August 23, 2012

    Great post.

    Reply
  150. the muskrat
    August 23, 2012

    Great organization…glad to support them!

    Reply
  151. Elise
    August 23, 2012

    Thanks for acknowledging this reality: “When [a] guy enters into a public conversation about parenting, he is challenging accepted stereotypes.” We NEED more men’s voices in those parenting discussions. Keep it coming, guys!

    Reply
  152. Kayla
    August 23, 2012

    What a great post. And totally true! Keep up the good work!

    Reply
  153. Mr Lady
    August 23, 2012

    And some of them were even spelled correctly.

    And with that, I die.

    Woot to your new digs, and thanks so much for #Blogusting!

    Reply
  154. daddy in a strange land
    August 23, 2012

    Good work, Clay!

    Reply
  155. Amy
    August 23, 2012

    Great post! I once had a gap in insurance coverage and paid out of pocket for my son’s immunizations. $450 later and I felt like I’d done what I could to protect my child. Now, a simple comment is worth $20 and can help a child get immunized. Thanks for being part of Shot@Life campaign so I can help out.

    Reply
    • Clay Nichols
      August 24, 2012

      Pretty amazing, right? I think about what we paid for my preemie son’s Synegis, and this blows my mind!

      Reply
  156. Holly Adams
    August 23, 2012

    Loved this blog! And thanks for participating in Blogust.

    Reply
  157. Heather
    August 24, 2012

    Great read! Thanks for being a part of this amazing campaign, and for being courageous enough to stand tall amidst such powerful group of women.

    Reply
  158. Anne
    August 24, 2012

    Thanks for posting.
    Immunization is a quiet, long-term process, much like parenting.
    Glad to make this comment (hope I spelled all the words right).

    This comment form says name is optional, but name is required after I push submit.

    Reply
  159. Cheryl
    August 24, 2012

    Sticks and stones may break your bones, but words should never hurt you. We have an obligation to give health to all children. Vaccinations are important.

    Reply
  160. Andrea
    August 24, 2012

    Well put. I love the encouragement for dads to step up to the plate and join the discussion. I will force my husband, uh, cajole? Send him a link? ;) I’ll encourage him to stop by and comment. It’s nice to see a dad in the mix. And thank you for participating in this incredible relay for such an important cause.

    Reply
  161. Justin
    August 24, 2012

    As a dad, I’m grateful for what you are trying to accomplish through Dad Labs and your blog (which I discovered for the first time through Blogust). Thank you for all that you do, hopefully I’ll get inspired to do more than just comment. But luckily I can make a big difference simply by commenting.

    Reply
  162. Helen
    August 26, 2012

    Thanks for reminding us how much Dad’s worry about the health of their kids and for helping Dads around the world take care of their children.

    Reply
  163. Clark
    August 26, 2012

    Glad to see a Dad blog!

    Reply
  164. Jennifer Burden @WorldMomsBlog
    August 27, 2012

    Here’s to saving one more child in the developing world! :)

    Reply
  165. Todd
    August 27, 2012

    As a non-daddy-blogging dad, I hope this comment is one more shot in the arm for the cause.
    When our first child arrived, my wife and I chose to each take part-time work so we could share in the pleasures–challenges? what challenges?–of raising our daughter, and then our son, and then another daughter (and then some surgery to call it a day). Sadly, it was damn near pre-web days, so there was no Dad Labs or daddy bloggers to help me feel less isolated after another day of being the only father at the playground, only father in the playgroup, only father wherever I went during normal working hours. I knew I was engaged in something great and something very interesting, almost experimental, but I could have used some adult male company.
    So thanks to you and your blogging colleagues for being there now for all of those who are making similar choices today. And, for sure, thanks for the blog relay contributions you’ve elicited.

    Reply
  166. Vanessa
    August 27, 2012

    LOve it! Thanks for giving us a chance to help save children around the world!

    Reply
  167. Emmi
    August 27, 2012

    Thank you for being part of Shot@Life!

    Reply
  168. Adrian
    August 28, 2012

    I’m hoping that additional comments count towards the total. I’m making a second pass through the calendar to catch a few days I missed the first time around.

    Reply
  169. Brandy Robertson
    August 28, 2012

    I just love this idea so much so here is comment #2 for me!
    I recently got back from a wonderful weekend in Ottawa Canada with an organisation that is near and dear to my heart. World University Service of Canada (WUSC) works to bring students from refugee camps in Africa and Asia to study in Canadian universities and colleges. I told everyone about Blogust and what a great fundraising initiative it is. What I wouldn’t give to find a generous donor to contribute to WUSC’s Student Refugee Program (SRP) in the same way! I am currently fundraising in my own small way for the SRP by challenging myself to run a half marathon in December and blogging about it here: http://21kforchange.blogspot.ca/
    Communities, be it online or otherwise, coming together for a cause is just so incredibly inspiring to me!
    Thank you, Clay, for taking part!

    Reply

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